Why New Year’s Resolutions Fail
December 31, 2010 7 Comments
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Four out of five of us don’t keep our New Year’s resolutions. You have a better chance of getting accepted into University of Southern California‘s undergraduate program than of keeping your New Year’s resolution.
Why is this?
In one famous TED talk, Derek Sivers posits that we set ourselves up for failure by publicly declaring a goal. According to Sivers, “secret goal-setting” is proven to work by hard social science testing and “social reality” theory. Sivers suggests that when we announce a goal, our mind is tricked into thinking that we’ve already achieved it. Therefore, we are less likely to work towards actually accomplishing the goal.
On the other hand, there’s a plethora of research showing that public commitment to a goal increases the likelihood that it will be achieved. Freakonomics wrote an entire article to this effect, effectively refuting Sivers’s claim. “The mere possibility,” Ian Ayres writes, that someone “will notice that you are not following through on your commitment is sufficient to add the extra layer of accountability.”
I think we fail because we fail to set achievable goals. A good goal should be measurable – “Lose weight,” for example, isn’t as effective is “Lose 10 pounds.” Having a plan of action – “Go to the gym three times a week” – doesn’t hurt, either.
Part of me wonders if declaring a New Year’s Resolution is a method of social signaling. Even though we know we might fail, having a resolution is letting our social circle know that we aren’t perfect, but we’re actively working to improve ourselves anyway.
Alternatively, it could be Optimistic Bias – the same bias that newlyweds suffer from. Newlyweds ”almost uniformly expect that their marriages will endure a lifetime,” despite the large proportion of marriages that end in divorce. It’s the same reason that we all think we’re better than average drivers.
Maybe we’re just resolutely optimistic on New Year’s Eve.
In 2010, I committed to run 1,000 miles. I succeeded: I will have run 1,724 miles in 2010. For 2011, I’m committing to learn Russian.
What’s your New Year’s resolution? One a scale of 1 to 10, how likely do you think you are to succeed?
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